Etiquette in the Playroom: Dos and Don’ts When Things Get Steamy

The playroom is the heart of many swinger lifestyle clubs — a place where fantasies come alive. But it only works when everyone follows some basic etiquette. Here’s how to keep the mood hot and the vibes respectful.

DO: Always Get Consent

Never touch or join a scene without a clear yes. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time. Ask before joining, even just to watch.

DON’T: Hover or Lurk

Watching can be part of the fun, but don’t stand too close or linger awkwardly. If you’re not invited to join, step back and be discreet.

DO: Keep It Clean

Practice good hygiene before and during play. Use protection, clean up after yourself, and dispose of items responsibly.

DON’T: Pressure or Push Boundaries

Respect everyone’s pace. Lifestyle play is based on mutual desire — not convincing or coercing.

Final Thoughts

The playroom works best when everyone is tuned into the same frequency of respect, consent, and fun. Be the guest people want to see again, and you’ll find the experience just as thrilling as you hoped.